by Daron Larson Scientific research into mindfulness practice and its potential benefits has exploded in recent years. It has been shown to help people manage stress, decrease anxiety, and get better sleep. In addition to personal reports, technological advances have improved our ability to track the impact of meditation on the brain’s structure and functioning. The enthusiasm stirred up by these findings is understandable. Who doesn’t want to feel a little more ease in their lives? But the excitement can lead to inaccurate assumptions about the experience of mindfulness practice itself. This is why it’s so important to understand the differences between the outcomes you hear about and the exercises required to actually get such benefits. Comparing mindfulness practice to what we already understand about physical fitness can help you adjust your expectations and increase the chances that you will stick with the exploration long enough to experience its numerous beneficial effects.
Not Weird Anymore
Not so long ago, running and lifting weights were activities reserved for athletes and soldiers. Imagine the confusion and neighborhood gossip that must have spread when ordinary people started to run around their blocks. It was seen as a weird thing to do until family doctors started to explain how physical exercise might help hearts and lungs function more efficiently and even lead to longer, more energetic lives. In a similar way, the images people associate with meditation can still seem a little weird to us today. Meditation is associated with monastic practices from various contemplative traditions. Over the past three decades, however, neuroscientists and psychologists have discovered firm evidence that mindfulness meditation can actually improve your sense of wellbeing over time. We know that it’s possible to run without training for the Olympics. Moving—including running, walking, swimming—on a regular basis improves physical health. Turns out that sitting relatively still for a few minutes a day has benefits, too. But not everyone knows yet that you can exercise your attention—which is a core meditation skill—without converting to a different religion or becoming a monk. Research studies confirm that consistent mindfulness practice can improve your mental and emotional wellbeing. The latest versions of the Apple watch and FitBit trackers have already gotten in sync with these findings by offering ways to encourage and track breath awareness exercises. Physical training approaches can and should be adjusted to reflect specific interests, challenges, and goals. Athletes work with coaches and other experts to explore better ways to enhance their performance. In a similar fashion, mindfulness exercises can also be modified to fit the way we live now. Experienced mindfulness coaches can walk you through exercises, help you improve your technique, and develop personalized practice programs.
Not Always ComfortableScientific research over the years has helped us understand that in order to have stronger bodies, we have to regularly engage in exercises that can be physically uncomfortable and fatiguing. We know through direct experience that changes in your heart rate, breathing, and perspiration occur normally when you challenge your body by climbing stairs, lifting weights, or cutting loose in a Zumba class. We’ve also learned that it’s possible to recognize the difference between healthy moderation and risky overexertion. When you train your attention by focusing on a sensory perceptions such as the body sensations related to breathing, you quickly discover how often your awareness wanders away from what you’re trying to notice. This is the point at which so many people misread the signs and give up, even though their experience is completely normal and expected aspect of training your attention. No one would assume that fatigued chest muscles prove that you aren’t cut out for push ups, but many people are doing something similar with meditation. They think that if they can’t focus well on the first try, they must somehow be “bad” at mindfulness. The road to physical strength is challenging because of the many discomforts along the way. The path to focus, self-awareness, and emotional regulation is riddled with distractions—which are one of the “discomforts” of meditation. It might not sound like it at first, but learning to relate to discomfort and confusion in a new way can be liberating. This is because general contentment becomes less dependent on comfort and certainty. Just as the research psychologist Anders Ericsson writes in his new book Peak: Secrets from the New Science of Expertise :
“Deliberate practice takes place outside one’s comfort zone and requires a student to constantly try things that are just beyond his or her current abilities.”And just like with physical exercise, working with a coach can really help with meditation. An experienced mindful awareness coach can help you clarify your expectations about mindfulness practice, identify effective strategies, navigate common obstacles, and avoid misinterpreting the evidence that indicates that you’re performing the exercises perfectly—even when it doesn’t feel like it at all.
Not a Replacement for Expert Care
Physical exercise increases strength, flexibility, and endurance to support the regular activities of daily life. Mindfulness practice develops attentional fitness to improve your ability to focus, relax, and observe thoughts and feelings more objectively. Just because you go to the gym regularly or get 10,000 steps every day doesn’t mean you never have to go to the doctor. Consistent mindfulness practice doesn’t replace the need for support groups, counseling, or other mental health interventions. It complements them by improving self-awareness and emotional regulation. Over time, it can help you get better at detecting the clues that indicate it’s time to reach out for additional assistance. There are many different approaches to mindfulness practice. As with physical exercise, it’s always a good idea to check with the care providers you trust to make sure that what you’re considering adding to your routine will contribute to the work you are already doing together.
You’re Already Training Your AttentionHow we habitually move and eat directly impacts our bodies in observable ways. Similarly, how we think and feel changes our brains in ways that neuroscientists can observe and measure. Mindfulness practice takes advantage of neuroplasticity, the brain’s stunning capacity for repairing itself after trauma and adapting to new challenges. Besides, you’re already training your attention.
- What is your current strategy for relating to thoughts and confusion?
- How do you relate to pleasant and unpleasant feelings?
- What do you do when you feel uncomfortable or confused?
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